Genesis 31 marks the turning point of Jacob's exile. Laban's sons grumble, Laban's face changes, and God speaks: Return to the land of your fathers, and to your relatives, and I will be with you. These words echo the Bethel promise. Jacob explains to Rachel and Leah that God has protected him from Laban's repeated cheating and has transferred the flocks to him, as God revealed in a dream. The sisters, also cheated by their father, agree.
Jacob flees secretly, and Rachel steals the household gods (teraphim). Laban pursues, but God intervenes in a dream: Be careful that you don't speak to Jacob either good or bad. Laban's search for his gods is almost comic: they cannot protect themselves and are hidden under a camel's saddle. Scripture mocks idols that must be carried and guarded.
Jacob's speech recounts twenty years of faithful labor through heat by day and frost by night. He concludes, Unless the God of my father, the God of Abraham, and the fear of Isaac, had been with me, surely now you would have sent me away empty. The two men raise a pillar and a heap of witness stones, called Mizpah: Yahweh watch between me and you. This was not a sweet blessing but a boundary marker between two men who did not trust each other. God's protection brings Jacob safely out of Paddan Aram.