The Sword in David's House

Second Samuel 13 shows the beginning of the sorrows Nathan foretold. Amnon, the king's firstborn, allowed a selfish desire to rule him. His cousin Jonadab, described as a very subtle man, devised a plan to get Tamar alone. Tamar spoke with courage and wisdom. She told Amnon not to force her, called the deed folly, warned that he would be counted among the fools in Israel, and asked him to speak to the king instead. He would not listen, and he forced her. The text makes clear that Amnon was the wrongdoer.

Tamar tore her royal robe and cried aloud. She remained desolate in Absalom's house. David was very angry, but he did not bring Amnon to justice. Absalom hid his hatred for two full years.

At a sheep-shearing feast in Baal Hazor, Absalom ordered his servants to strike Amnon when his heart was merry with wine, and they killed him. A false report reached David that all his sons were slain, and he tore his garments. Jonadab, who had helped begin the tragedy, now explained that only Amnon was dead. Absalom fled to Talmai king of Geshur, his grandfather by his mother, and stayed three years. David mourned for his son every day, and in time he longed to go out to Absalom.